"Look at the positive"

My coworker told me to look at the positive today when i was complaing about all my friends getting married. She said just think of all the things you will get to do that they won't because they are married! This is so true! I get to go to Samoa! I don't have to really worry about anyone when it comes to my finances but me! I have really bad spending habits right now! I need to work on them! Like really bad! I am saving though! $25 dollars a paycheck goes to my savings! And $25 goes to my Samoa fund! But i do have more freedom without someone! I can just go on these trips because i feel like it! I just save up the money and go! Also i get one more year on council. If i was married i couldn't do that! Well just keep looking at the positive! Take chances just cause i can! I get so nervous to actually try something! I need to relax! If i don't try something i will regret it later! What's stopping me? My fear!

well that's another day in the life of rachy-poo